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Seoul, Korea: Our Trip in Review

Korea Trip Recap

14 days in Seoul, Korea. 6 Months Pregnant

Back in February, we took a two-week family vacation to Seoul, Korea. After the trip, I drafted a few posts chronicling our travels, but neglected sorting through the gigabytes of pictures we brought back. I finally got around to it and I warn you, we’ll be playing a bit of catch up.

Inspired by one of my new favourite Canadian travel blogs, Thrifty Nomads, I’m adopting their “monthly round-up” to document our travel adventures. It’s a great format to summarize favourite moments of vacation; I’ll also throw in some personal finance tidbits in there! Beware, this post will be picture and information overload.

Highlights

Seoul was so good to us. With its delicious food, great shopping, and friendly people, it has made its way up to our top ten cities to visit.

Cost of Plane Tickets

We purchased our flight tickets during a pricing error on the Delta website. This one nine months before the trip; that is a long time, but tickets came out to be less than $1500- for three people! Our round trip ticket to Korea per person cost $470, taxes included; that is generally less than a domestic flight to Calgary!

Introducing the Kid to New Things

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I love travelling with the kid. It is not easy, especially since I was also pregnant, but when you manage expectations, it is so much fun seeing a new place through my son’s perspective. He named the subway lines after characters from Thomas and Friends (the blue line was Thomas; the green Percy etc). He always asked for snacks, referring specifically to poop shaped pastries filled with chocolate. He learned more Korean words than I did and thought the words for “thank you” were hilarious. He called kimbab “sushi” and ate lots of dried seaweed. His favorite part of the trip was the flight to Seoul because was allowed to drink apple juice.

Food

Korea Trip Recap - Food

I had compiled a list of 30 food Korean items I wanted to try… Needless to say, we managed to knock off 29 of the 30 items on the list.

I like to eat. I did not care to learn more about Korean history and culture or even see the sights; I wanted to feed the growing babe in my belly. My mission was to try foods that we’d never had before; we get pretty authentic Korean food here in Toronto- especially in my neighbourhood- but I wanted to eat things we were not familiar with. I compiled a list of 30 food items I wanted to try; the list included sannakji (raw baby octopus), galbijim (braised short ribs), and bindaetteok (mung bean pankcakes). It became a daily quest of ours to check items off my list, a constant hunt for the next meal. Daniel start the day asking, “what food adventure are we going on today?” or beg “Can we have something less adventurous for lunch??” Needless to say, we managed to knock off 29 of the 30 items on my list.

Korean Friendliness

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Koreans are so friendly and kind! Both the kid and I were always offered a seat on the subway; sometimes I was even gently forced to sit down! Ajumamas (Korean middle-aged women) goggled at the kid- rambling in Korean about something or another- and offered him free food. When he responded with “hamsa-simida” (thank-you), they would squeal in delight and ramble some more. There was a language barrier, of course, but it did not prevent people from trying to chat; they would give unsolicited advice and directions in Korean, sprinkled with broken English and Mandarin.  There was even an old man who engaged Daniel in a lengthy conversation- all in Korean- eventually asking to pat our child on the head with hand gestures.

Cafe Hopping

Korea Trip Recap - Cafe Hopping

Seoul has a huge coffee culture (who knew?! I didn’t). There is a high density of cafes, and even districts and streets dedicated to coffee. We spent a couple of afternoons cafe-hopping and saw the quirkiest of coffee shops. Since I was limiting my caffeine intake, we didn’t bother with shops known to serve a good cuppa; instead, we ventured to one that would appeal to our toddler. His favourite cafes included one that had live sheep roaming about and another that was decked out in volkswagen paraphernalia.

Lowlights

 Being pregnant deterred us from venturing outside the city.

Broken Stroller

On our way to Seoul, Deltabroke a wheel off our stroller, rendering it unusable. It took about a week to resolve the issue and we eventually received a replacement from the airline. During the week without a stroller, our little boy walked much as he could, but we ended carrying him around a lot. Not having a stroller also made it difficult for our boy to take his afternoon nap and we had to change our itinerary to accommodate an overtired jetlagged toddler.

Stuff is Expensive

Seoul is not cheap. Food was more expensive that I had anticipated; the cost of a meal was comparable to eating in the same thing in Toronto (for example, a bowl of kimchi jjigae averaged 9000 KRW* in Korea; it costs about $8 before tax and tip here in Toronto). Our accommodations had a small kitchen, but we found groceries at the stores nearby to be exorbitantly priced. Milk cost 6000 won for 2 litres; as much as I wanted fresh fruits and vegetables, I couldn’t bring myself to pay 5000 won for half a dozen bananas. We ended up exceeding the amount we had budgeted for food.

*Note: at the time of travel, approximately 1000 KRW = 1 CAD

Itinerary Changes

We planned to venture outside of Seoul to go hiking and see some other cities, but when the day came around, something would deter us from leaving the city. One day, our toddler woke up with a fever; we stayed in the entire day. Another day, I was experiencing pregnancy aches and pains, including severe sciatic nerve pain, and couldn’t walk for long periods of time; we went to the spa instead of hiking Seoraksan mountain. I was disappointed, to be honest, because I love hiking and had been looking forward to seeing some of Korea’s lovely mountains and national parks.

Accommodations

We stayed at a studio apartment a la AirBnB, on a recommendation from travel connoisseur Barry Choi over at Money We Have. The apartment was located near two subway lines. It was also walking distance to three big tourist attractions as well as a myriad of restaurants. All in all, it was in an extremely convenient locale. The owner of the apartment was extremely helpful; she helped sort out the whole stroller ordeal. She also offered use of a wireless data thingy majig for our phone which came in handy; we had constant access to maps and google, and never found ourselves lost.

Last Word

We became almost familiar with the city, walking the same route every day and passing people who would greet us with knowing smiles and friendly waves.

Seoul is dynamic and friendly, and ever so tasty. My main goal in Seoul was to eat, and boy did we get our fill! We had an enjoyable time completing an unofficial Korean food scavenger hunt and tried many new dishes. In between meals, we did make some time for some touristy experiences. We visited major attractions, like Nasam Tower, Lotte World, the fish market, DMZ, and a few palaces, but we also explored neighbourhoods in a slow leisurely pace. We were in Seoul for fourteen days. It is a lot of time to spend in that one city, but  it turns out it was just right for a pregnant woman with a toddler. We became almost familiar with the city, walking the same route every day and passing people who would greet us with knowing smiles and friendly waves. We re-visited our favourite neighbourhoods and spent afternoons walking around aimlessly, just absorbing the surroundings culture.

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We hope to return to Korea one day, with the intent of venturing outside of Seoul and completing hikes we didn’t get around to during this trip. The verdict on Seoul? Seoul was so good to us. With its delicious food, great shopping, and friendly people, it has made its way up to our top ten cities to visit.

Lifestyle

3 Ways to Save on Maternity Leave

Save on Maternity Leave

Lately my days have been looking a little something like this: I wake up, feed/entertain the kids, take a nap with the kids, feed/entertain the kids some more, put the kids to bed, and then pass out from exhaustion. On occasion, drink coffee with friends, arrange play dates with other mothers and their kids, and take day trips around the city for culture, food and shopping. This, my friends, is me on maternity leave.

Four months ago, we welcomed Little Sister into the world. She was born 7 lbs, 5oz- though I’m certain 20% of that was hair; Little Sister has a lot of it. Daniel took a week off to help with the transition from having one kid to two, and I started a year long maternity leave at home.

In a nutshell, we lucky Canadians are entitled to a year of unpaid time off from work with paid benefits as a part of Canadian Employment Insurance. So basically, the government pays me up to 55% of my regular income , capped at a weekly maximum. We’re fortunate to have the income, but it amounts to a significant reduction in salary. So our household income takes a hit this year, but it is a year I get to play with the kids- all the live long day.

The reduced income undoubtedly impacts our family finances. While our expenses do not exceed our income, bringing home less diminishes our ability to save. No biggie- I guess- what is one year in the grand scheme of things, right? Wrong. We still want to maintain a savings rate that we’re comfortable with, and in order to do so, we’re reducing our expenses.

Ways We Save On Maternity Leave

Don’t Buy Things for Baby

Contrary to popular belief, babies are NOT expensive. For the most part, baby related expenses are minimal, especially if the baby isn’t a first born. Little Sister is breastfed exclusively which means there are no food costs. As for clothes, she generally wears hand me downs and borrowed clothes. We are re-using all the baby gear, including a huge stash of cloth diapers, that we purchased with our Big Brother. So, Little Sister has food, clothes, gear, and diapers- at the cost of $0. The costs we have incurred are discretionary: save for a box of newborn diapers and some really cute baby girl clothes (I couldn’t resist!), we have not spent any money on Little Sister.

Don’t Buy Things for Ourselves

We decided to stop making personal purchases.. The budget for our personal allowances have been unofficially set to $0.There is no strict no shopping ban per se and we can still buy whatever we want (within reason, of course), but we try not to make purchases for items we do not absolutely need. Four months in and it hasn’t been hard. Daniel typically doesn’t spend money anyway. Clothes are usually my weakness, but since I am still carrying some of my pregnancy weight, I have had no desire to shop. Aside from houseplants, I’m happy to report we have not made any unnecessary purchases.

Cut back on Daycare

Big Brother was attending daycare full time when I was working. We debated whether or not we should keep in while I was on maternity leave and decided that part-time daycare would be the best option for our family. He spent the entire summer at home and now attends pre-school three days a week. Since daycare is so expensive, even cutting back a couple of days made a big difference; it saves us a few hundred dollars a month. If we wanted to further reduce expenses, we could take him out entirely and have him stay home, but at the moment, part-time is working well.  

The Last Word

We all have different priorities. Some mothers don’t take a full year off be it for their careers or financial implications. Some families may choose to forego a year of saving in order maintain their standard of living. How to approach maternity leave is a choice that many make depending on their circumstances.

I chose to take a year off on maternity leave. It comes at a price but I want opportunity to be with my children. At the same time, Daniel and I want to continue to make our savings a priority and hope to achieve the saving goals we had set out earlier in the year. With the lesser income, it means making some changes to the way we manage our money. We are choosing to spend as little as we can to save on maternity leave.

What expenses did you cut while on maternity leave?

Travel

Travel Plans for 2015

Oh, the places we went in 2014:

Urban Departures Travel in 2015

  • February – We took a road trip to Ottawa and enjoyed beaver tails and hot chocolate during Winterlude. It was freaking cold. The kid went tobogganing for the first time in what he thought was a boat.
  • March/April – Daniel traveled to and from Houston a lot for work. He sampled some of the best southern food he’s ever had. His geeky side was tickled fancy when he had the opportunity to visit NASA’s Johnson Space Center, touring the historic mission control and catching a glimpse of the Orion capsule which will one day take us to Mars.
  • May – I went to Vegas for a bachelorette party and was introduced to bottle service, celebrity DJs, and clubbing till the wee hours of the night; it was quite a cultural experience. While Vegas was not high on my list of places to travel to, I had so much fun that I can’t wait to go back!
  • June – Ah, the World Cup, hang gliding and beaches… sans le bebe. Brazil was our big international trip of the year and though it cost us more than we normally spend on a vacation, it was well worth it.
  • July – Daniel was in California for a couple weeks on business. On the company’s dime, he dined in Michelin star restaurants in the Bay area. On weekends, he would explore San Francisco, visiting big tourist attractions like Alcatraz and the Golden Gate Bridge.
  • August – After a hectic chaotic first eight months of the year, we took some time to unwind at “the cottage” in Prince Edward County. It was a blissful trip of family, food, and relaxing, and helped us refresh and renew for an even busier quarter.
  • November – Daniel went back to the Bay Area for a couple weeks. He enjoyed warm weather, while eating very well on restaurant patios while I had to endure snow storms. Oh, the fairness of it all.
  • December – Already sick of the cold, I convinced Daniel that we needed a family vacation to a warm and sunny locale. After some careful planning, we went on a Western-Caribbean cruise to get a tan.

Travel Plans for 2015

With the baby #2 coming this year, we’re limiting our travelling this year. Nonetheless, we do have a couple of vacations planned already. Continue Reading

Investing

2015 Financial Outlook

It took three weeks, but we finally got around to sorting out  our budget and financial goals for 2015. Putting together our budget for the new year was difficult; not only are there going to be a few unknowns, we’re are going to be taking on less income with more expenses. 2015 will be quite a year for us here at Urban Departures… Continue Reading