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The Year Ahead

Hello, Awesome

Ah, the new year. It smells shiny and new and exciting. As each new year begins, an optimism surges through me like adrenaline and I am convinced that the upcoming year will be full of awesomeness and possibilities.

Daniel and I have been coming up with what we want for the upcoming year. One of the first things we looked at was our finances. We reviewed our 2013 spending and saving trends, determined a new savings rate, and set a new amount to be saved by the end of 2014. There are excel spreadsheets and footnotes of assumptions to back-up our savings goal; unfortunately, we don’t have the time to visually map (in, like, a Powerpoint or flow diagram or Gnatt chart) out the plan we created to achieve the goal.

We came up a number of realistic, SMART goals in most aspects of our lives- personal, career, Urban Departures- but they didn’t feel complete. What was the the reason and purpose for setting these goals for ourselves? I pictured myself a year from now. If, all goals accomplished, I’d have saved $X, travelled to X number of countries, and blogged X number of times. That would be pretty awesome but it wouldn’t lead to new breakthroughs.

What Gives?

That is when I realized that I needed to make resolutions in addition to my goals. There is a significant distinction between goals and resolutions. “Increase net worth by $20K” or “Run in a 5KM race” is a goal. It’s specific and can be achieved. There’s a beginning and an end. Once you’ve done it, it’s been accomplished. “Save” or “Be healthy” are generally resolutions. They are this high-level overarching vision that have no start or finish.

Resolutions and goals need to in conjunction with each other. Resolutions give purpose to goals; goals should be defined based on resolutions. Resolutions without goals are vague and kinda like that ditzy girl in highschool: they look good but are without substance and depth. Goals without a resolution are just items on a checklist. However, together there is vision and mission.

The Resolution

After some thought and reflection, Daniel and I agreed that as individuals, a family unit, and Urban Departures, our vision for this year is to live simply.

We live in clutter. Our home is filled to the brim with toys, clothes, kitchen appliances, and old unused electronics. When I stand in my closet, I am overwhelmed by the amount of clothes I have, even with regular seasonal closet purges. 40% of my bookshelf is consists of books I’ve never read or intend on reading; 50% of my kitchen gadgets remain unused since they were purchased or gifted. Let’s not even start on my craft supplies.

Our to-do lists and schedules are similar. There’s work, of course, and the daily mundane tasks of existing, like eating, sleeping, and prepping for eating and sleeping. In between all that, we’ve filled our time running errands, doing chores, and meeting up with people for lunch, dinner, play dates, and coffee dates. Our lives are centered around checking things off our to-do list and when there is a brief moment, we need to rush ourselves to yet another social commitment. While we enjoy spending time with friends and family, sometimes it’s too much and exhausting, and doesn’t leave us a lot of time to explore our passions or use our creativity.

In 2014, we want to free ourselves from the stuff, obligations and preconceived notions that prevents us from realizing amazing possibilities and awesomeness. We want to declutter our lives from “unnecessities” to make more time, energy and money to pursue what we value.

The Goals

To support our resolution, we hope to achieve the following goals:

Financial

  • Automate savings and investment accounts
  • Save 25% of gross income (including company contributions to RRSPs); max out the 2014 contribution room in our TFSAs
  • Learn about dividend investing within 6 months by reading 3 books and assess the practicality of evolving our portfolio.

Blog

  • Set posting schedule with 3 posts/week; write 90% of posts at least a week ahead
  • Set guest post schedule; guest post quarterly

Personal

  • Wake up between 6:30 and 7AM and be in bed by 10:30PM weekdays; do not watch TV in bed past 11PM
  • Purge unused items from the wardrobe, kitchen and basement storage locker
  • Do 2 family activities (biking and hiking) at least 3 times each during the warmer months
  • Take two family vacations, one of which being a cottage week or weekend
  • Travel to a country or city (outside of Canada) we’ve never been before

Let’s Get Started

We’ll do our best to see thing through in 2014 and we’ll keep track of what we accomplish right here on this bat channel. Stick around and find out how we do!

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  • Erin @ My Alternate Life January 6, 2014 at 11:46 AM

    I’ll come over and help you guys purge :). I am seriously the queen of purging anything and everything that we don’t need or love. I hate stuff, especially because we move almost every year and packing sucks!

    Good luck with your goals and resolution in 2014!

    • Emily January 6, 2014 at 6:03 PM

      Oh, please do help, Erin! Daniel used to move around a lot and didn’t have a lot of. Then he met me and I filled his life with cushions and tea cups and the most random things ever. Combine that with his “ooh! I can finally keep things because I have the space for it” mentality and we’re being buried in a lot of stuff.

  • Alicia @ Financial Diffraction January 6, 2014 at 2:37 PM

    I need to jump onto the de-cluttering goal with you. I HATE how cluttered our place is. It doesn’t help that we downsized when we moved and didn’t have a huge amount of time to purge before that. It also doesn’t help that my fiance is a pack-rat. I am getting this place “ship-shape” though. I’ll try to tackle one corner at a time. A shelving unit, then a closet, etc. By the end of the year, I will hopefully have sent oodles to goodwill.

    Good luck with the goals and resolutions!

    • Emily January 6, 2014 at 6:04 PM

      One corner at a time is a good methodical way of purging. You won’t be overwhelmed! I’ll be sure to check in with you at the end of the year- specifically about YOUR purging 😉

  • save. spend. splurge. January 6, 2014 at 3:24 PM

    I love.. love.. LOVE getting rid of stuff.

    When my parents left on vacation I basically went through their cupboards and quietly junked things I knew had been there for 10 years (little old dried up shampoo bottles from hotels, etc).

    I would have gotten rid of more but they seem to notice when I do that, so I do it when they’re not around (biggest accomplishment: got rid of a BROKEN CHAIR that they were keeping “just in case” when they were out of the house).

    If I had my way, I’d basically junk the entire basement. It’s filled to the brim with crap.

    • Emily January 6, 2014 at 6:08 PM

      I love getting rid of stuff too. The problem is that I also love to accumulate stuff. Combine that with Daniel’s pat-rack ways and you have a slow cooker, panini press, expresso maker etc that rarely (if ever) get used. However, we don’t keep broken stuff… or stolen shampoo bottles. Haha.

  • save. spend. splurge. January 6, 2014 at 4:13 PM

    P.S. Sell or re-gift those kitchen appliances. Or simply donate them to Goodwill.

    • Emily January 6, 2014 at 6:09 PM

      We’re going to try to sell. We’re giving ourselves a 6-month sell window; if they don’t sell, then they get donated. What do you suggest we do with clothes?

  • Heather @ Simply Save January 7, 2014 at 12:19 AM

    Love it! Something about purging feels so good! I think it’s refreshing in this era of extreme consumerism! Best of luck on your resolutions!

    • Emily January 7, 2014 at 10:47 AM

      I find purging therapeutic. I do it randomly here and there, but I’m determined to do a full purge of ALL unused household items this year. Thanks for the luck

  • Well Heeled Blog January 7, 2014 at 12:07 PM

    I get a little overwhelmed looking at my closet. So this is not a firm resolution, but I want to be very thoughtful about what I buy – and so far I’ve been successful at avoiding all the after-New Year sales, so hopefully that thoughtfulness and resolve keep on going!

    Another thing I’ve realized – I HATE budgeting. Hate it. I don’t want to have a spending plan for spending $1,000 or $3,000 or whatever on clothes a year and then keep track of those expenses. I’d rather not buy any clothes. And if I don’t buy any clothes, I don’t have to do budgeting for any clothes.

    Ah the sweet smell of spending success!

    • Emily January 7, 2014 at 10:17 PM

      I’m with you. I don’t want to set a limit as to how much I can spend on clothes; I just want to be wary of what do I spend on. Unfortunately, I had a bit of a splurge day; in my defense, I have some closet gaps to fill (after re-evaluating my clothes during a preliminary purge) and I just need to get a spending spree out of my system before I minimize the consuming.

  • Carla January 7, 2014 at 9:10 PM

    We are kindred spirits… I too want to live far more “simply” this year! Next month I plan on “decluttering” all month!! 🙂 I find that “less stuff” is freeing! I’ll never be a “minimalist” but with 4 kids, stuff comes in far too easily sometimes!

    Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving such a nice comment, i’ll be reading up on your blog as well and would love to swap “blog links” if you like as i’m sure my readers would enjoy your blog as well! 🙂

    Good luck with your challenge, I look forward to reading more about how you work towards this goal! 🙂

    • Emily January 7, 2014 at 10:22 PM

      I don’t think I’ll ever be a minimalist, but I do want minimize what I have, especially if it means being less wasteful and more thoughtful as to how I manage my money. Thanks for the luck; we’re determined at accomplishing (and maybe even surpassing?) our goals and, more importantly, resolve to live more simply!

  • Lisa E. @ Lisa Vs. The Loans January 9, 2014 at 2:57 PM

    Just wanted to say that I recently stumbled upon this blog and I’m so glad I did! I, too, would love to live a simpler life. I like how you also emphasize being free of obligations, as living simply isn’t just about living with less material goods. I look forward to what this year brings and I plan on sticking around!

    • Emily January 9, 2014 at 5:08 PM

      Thanks for stopping by and please do stick around!

      Material goods may stress me out more frequently, but it’s the obligations that cause the big stress. I’m thinking about obligatory social events with people I don’t particularly feel comfortable with and then having to make small talk… I may break out in hives just thinking about it.